Work With Me
The engagements below reflect some of the ways I’ve worked with clients over time. My work has also included nervous-system seminars for larger groups and focused experiences built around a particular challenge. These examples give you a sense of what’s possible; your situation deserves its own conversation.
You don’t need to arrive knowing which service to choose. Tell me what’s happening, what keeps getting in the way, and what you’d like to be different. We’ll talk about where I can be useful and shape our work together.
Private Coaching. Executive Advisory. Organizational Engagements.
Services
Tiffany’S Take
1 day | $5,000
I fly to you. A focused, one-time deep dive designed to create clarity, uncover patterns, and build a roadmap forward. Common areas of focus include:
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The most undervalued asset in your life. Understanding the emotions driving decisions, relationships, and performance.
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A neurodivergent lens on energy, executive functioning, masking, and sustainable systems.
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Understanding the patterns shaping connection, intimacy, and conflict.
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Exploring the beliefs, roles, and adaptations that quietly drive your life.
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Creating clarity around connection, compatibility, and relational patterns.
100 day
quick start
$18,000
One focused season of clinically informed coaching to identify what’s keeping you stuck and create meaningful, sustainable movement.
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Rapid Clarity and strategic calibration during a specific transition or decision point.
Over 100 Days, we will work to identify patterns driving a specific, current tension; interrupt the sticking points; and establish clearer strategies to help you move forward. The 100 Day Quick Start is not a full identity reconstruction, but a fine-tuned focus on a single, immediate challenge.
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Deep restructuring of identity, relational dynamics, and life architecture.
The 12-Month Transformation provides sustained support while navigating significant personal or professional evolution. With a long-term coaching partnership, we can identify deep identity structures that influence personal and professional relationships and decision making. Over a year, we work to recognize familiar patterns, test new responses, and strengthen ways of living and relating that better reflect who you are and what matters to you.
12 month
transformation
$54,000
A year of highly individualized support for deep, lasting change in how you lead, live, and relate.
6 months | $38,000
This work is not traditional couples therapy, and it’s not skills-based coaching. It’s a high-touch private advisory engagement grounded in the belief that relationships change through honesty, accountability, emotional safety, and action—not insight alone.
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Most couples already understand at least some of their patterns. Meaningful transformation requires more than identifying them. It requires learning how to relate differently in the moments when those patterns are actually unfolding.
Together, we work to:
Understand the structure your relationship currently operates within
Recognize where old patterns and protective strategies no longer serve you
Examine how each person contributes to connection and disconnection
Build a partnership that is more honest, intentional, and sustainable
My approach is direct, compassionate, and deeply relational. I name harmful dynamics clearly when they are present—including defensiveness, dismissal, contempt, emotional withdrawal, and other behaviors that erode trust. I also understand those dynamics within the larger context of each person’s nervous system, attachment history, trauma, identity, and learned strategies for protection.
Not every pattern affects a partnership equally, and accountability does not always mean assigning equal responsibility. It means being willing to see clearly what is happening, what each person is carrying, and what the relationship now requires.
Alongside deeper understanding, we strengthen your capacity for emotional regulation, honest communication, boundaries, repair, accountability, and staying connected through moments of stress and conflict.
This tends to be a strong fit for couples who:
Are both willing to look at themselves, not only each other
Are navigating a meaningful life, relationship, or identity transition
Function at a high level, yet feel misaligned, disconnected, or caught in patterns that no longer fit
Want something more transformative than repeating the same conversations with better language
Because this work is designed to move beyond what can be understood from a distance, the engagement includes an in-person session during the first month. I travel to you, allowing us to work within the real environment and relational context of your life together.
We work with the moments that shape your relationship: how you raise difficult subjects, respond when one of you feels hurt, take responsibility, and find your way back to each other.
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A minimum six-month commitment allows for:
Consistent touchpoints
Real-time application and adjustment
And the ability to create meaningful change that holds outside of sessions
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6-Month Engagement ($38,000)
Focused, high-touch work designed to stabilize and begin restructuring the relationship during a period of transition.12-Month Engagement ($62,000)
Deeper, extended work for couples who want to fully recalibrate how the relationship functions and supports the next chapter of their lives.